A former shy kid has come out of his shell and gotten very good at meeting women and getting phone numbers. So why do these connections never go anywhere?| Paging Dr. NerdLove
Her friends are angry about her non-monogamous relationships. Isn't it more important that she's happy? But what if her partners don't know everything?| Paging Dr. NerdLove
Dear Dr. NerdLove: I am contemplating a big move and looking for a distanced opinion. A few years ago, I met Awesome Guy at a work event. We hit it off, had a lot in common, and amazing chemistry. We both travel a lot for work and actually live in separate countries. Neither of us was looking for 'the one' at the time, so we agreed to see each other casually when we found each other in the same city, which was about once a month or so. This worked out well for almost a year, but as you can| Paging Dr. NerdLove
You may have noticed over the years that I cover a lot of topics that don't seem to fit squarely in this blog's mission statement of helping nerds date better. One of the reasons why I write about feminist issues or bad behavior within the geek community is because, frankly, getting better at dating is a holistic system. As I'm fond of saying, dating success is 80% attitude and 20% skill, and a lot of that attitude involves both issues of masculinity and also understanding and empathiz...| Paging Dr. NerdLove