Straight talk time: confidence is sexy. Someone who lacks confidence - even if he looks like a GQ cover model - is going to be considerably less attractive than someone who may not have perfect facial features but does have abundant self-esteem. This isn't just 'rah rah self-esteem' feel-good bullshit; confidence actually alters how people see you. In a study published by the International Journal of Cosmetic Science researchers found that raising men's confidence - in this case, via the...| Paging Dr. NerdLove
Getting better at dating is hard enough. It gets even harder when it feels like your own mind is fighting back against your attempts to improve yourself. When I was younger, I used to be a chronic insomniac. I'd be physically tired, but I could never actually get to sleep; my body would be exhausted but I could never get my brain to quiet down long enough for me to relax and pass out. Every night became an exercise in what I called 'riding the maelstrom' ((Because when you're a young nerd, e...| Paging Dr. NerdLove