I am often asked what’s wrong with setting a goal to “be happy” or “feel good.” The problem is that these “goals” are subjective — ultimately circular. Goals need to be objective. To understand that goals need to be objective, first you need to understand what a goal is, and how it relates to emotions. […]| Thinking Directions
In the previous article, I opined that only a productive purpose can serve as a a central purpose. Before going deeper into the positive point, I’d like to address some common questions. People ask, why not make recreation or relationships or emotional well-being your central purpose? For example, why can’t a retiree have as his […]| Thinking Directions
In the last article, I described a central purpose as a long-range productive goal that is stylized and utterly selfish. I gave a few examples of how different people in the same profession could have significantly different passions. And I argued that everyone, from young adults to retirees, benefits from having such a goal. There […]| Thinking Directions
