For years, I wore “being the bigger person” like a badge of honor. I let slights slide. I smoothed over other people’s bad behavior to keep the peace. I chose politeness over truth, even when the truth burned a hole in my chest. And each time, I convinced myself this was maturity. Strength. Emotional intelligence. … Continue reading "I stopped being “the bigger person” — and I’ve never felt more free"| The Expert Editor
Some people wield “niceness” like a velvet glove over an iron fist. On first encounter, they’re generous, funny, and charming. But over time you notice something off: a sting in the “jokes,” a debt after the favors, a pattern of small cuts that leave you second-guessing yourself. This isn’t about pathologizing everyone who has a … Continue reading "People who are kind on the surface but mean underneath often display these 7 specific behaviors"| The Expert Editor