Back in the bad old days, I did a lot of things I regret out of jealousy. Pretty much from middle-school onwards, jealousy defined the majority of my waking life. Everywhere I looked, other people had what I thought I wanted in life. Watching happy couples would alternately make me feel lonely and almost sick with envy. Watching movies meant watching people with lives - and relationships - that I wished I could have. Of course, it didn't help that I was surrounded by people who seemed to ...| Paging Dr. NerdLove
His relationship was great at first. But most of her exes are still around and now he can't stop imagining her in bed with them. What can he do?| Paging Dr. NerdLove
Let's talk a little about relationship longevity. Most relationships aren't going to have what it takes to go the distance. In fact, many relationships simply can't last because of a simple fact: you're not sexually compatible. It may not seem like it at first, while you're caught up in the throes of new relationship energy. Even if you're not quite at the same level, you believe You see, new relationships are easy. All those chemicals flooding your brain - the deluge of oxytocin and dop...| Paging Dr. NerdLove
She left an abusive and intimacy-free relationship only to end up in another relationship where the sex has died. What happened here?| Paging Dr. NerdLove
Estimated reading time: 14 minutes Dear Dr. NerdLove: So, my husband & I have been married close to 4 years now. I love this man very very deeply but, I’m concerned that maybe he doesn’t feel sexually attracted to me anymore. Maybe I’m not as pretty as I once before or maybe he’s even fell out of love me. I’m not sure what is going on at this point. All I do know is the way he has me feeling about myself is affecting me mentally, emotionally & physically at this point. Our sex life ...| Paging Dr. NerdLove
Straight talk: there are two phrases that a woman can say that will instill ball-shrinking terror in the heart of every man. The first is 'We need to talk.' The second is 'Where do you think this relationship is going?' It's the dreaded 'Defining The Relationship' talk... and nobody ever looks forward to it. The DTR talk has achieved an almost mythical level of terror amongst people - especially men, because it almost always comes at the worst possible moment, and suddenly you have to make de...| Paging Dr. NerdLove
There comes a point in every relationship where you have to have an awkward or intimidating conversation you'd rather avoid. There's no getting around it. No relationship you'll ever have, whether it's with friends, family or lovers, will be without problems. If you've got two (or more) humans together, conflict is pretty much inevitable. It's easy in the early days, when great sex, or even just the thrill and novelty of a new relationship can paper over a lot of sins. When you're busy bang...| Paging Dr. NerdLove
They had been enjoying their stag/vixen arrangement until a series of mistakes ruined everything. How can he get over his jealousy and get his groove back?| Paging Dr. NerdLove
Their on-again, off-again relationship is starting to drive her crazy. Are they a couple, are they just friends with benefits or should they just split?| Paging Dr. NerdLove
