My Partner's Upset Over How Many People I've Dated! - Paging Dr. NerdLove
Her partner asked how many people she'd slept with... and now he can't stop being upset about her answer. How should she handle his jealousy?| Paging Dr. NerdLove
Her partner asked how many people she'd slept with... and now he can't stop being upset about her answer. How should she handle his jealousy?| Paging Dr. NerdLove
He's aromantic, abrosexual and has the attachment style of a feral cat. How can he navigate the dating world and find a relationship?| Paging Dr. NerdLove
Two queer men are at their wits' end trying to find people to date and the apps are of no use. Where should they be looking for love?| Paging Dr. NerdLove
One of the hardest things that people face over the course of a long-term relationship is that the initial spark - what many in the polyamory community call 'new relationship energy' - fades. It's an entirely natural part of settling into a relationship; the initial honeymoon period fades and what was intense and exciting becomes calmer and placid. That initial rush of passion that had you banging out on every flat surface in the house and made every vaguely empty space a potential fuckstop...| Paging Dr. NerdLove
One of the hardest things to keep in mind when it comes to dating is that the work doesn't end just because you're in a relationship. It's easy to get tunnel vision, especially when you've been working so hard at the early stages - developing your approach, learning how to generate attraction, etc. - that once you start having some successes... you don't know quite what to do next. We're taught to have unrealistic expectations about relationships; even when we understand intellectually that ...| Paging Dr. NerdLove
Being a man, particularly a straight, cisgendered man, can be a perverse paradox at times. Society caters to us in almost every way imaginable. Even in 2021, as we strive towards greater social and sexual equity for people of different genders and sexualities, straight cis men are very much at the top of the social heap. And yet, men are lonelier and more isolated than ever, feeling not just lost but ignored or cast aside. It seems laughable; society caters to straight men to an absurd deg...| Paging Dr. NerdLove
They're getting ready to spice up their marriage. How can they make sure that this is a fun sexy adventure and not an impending disaster?| Paging Dr. NerdLove
