Guys spend a lot of time worrying about whether they should or shouldn't approach women they're attracted to. It's an incredibly common component of approach anxiety; you want to go introduce yourself to that cute woman you see, but you're afraid of getting rejected or being another unwelcome interruption in her day. But here's a secret you should know: women worry about rejection and humiliation just as much as men do - more so, in many cases, as many men react badly to being approached. A...| Paging Dr. NerdLove
Estimated reading time: 14 minutes Dear Dr. NerdLove: Long time, first time, you know the drill. I want you to settle something for me and my friends. We've been arguing about the whole 'who's the most attractive to women' and we're getting nowhere. My position is that women are more attracted to bodies than guys think. I can't on Instagram without seeing my female friends openly drooling over some gym bro with 8% body fat. Meanwhile if you were to ask them, they'd say it's not about their lo...| Paging Dr. NerdLove
He knows he shouldn't, but he keeps reading about how older virgins like him shouldn't date. How can he keep social media from destroying his confidence?| Paging Dr. NerdLove
He's told he's a catch and women like him, yet he's sitting by himself while other men are getting approached. What is he doing wrong?| Paging Dr. NerdLove