He's an average guy, who doesn't stand out in any way. How is he supposed to find love if women only look for the hottest of the hot?| Paging Dr. NerdLove
He's having great success getting matches on dating apps, but they ghost when he messages them. Why are these matches not turning into dates?| Paging Dr. NerdLove
She's got a solid group of friends for the first time in her life. But will trying to find love mean giving up her new social circle?| Paging Dr. NerdLove
Estimated reading time: 14 minutes Dear Dr. NerdLove: Long time, first time, you know the drill. I want you to settle something for me and my friends. We've been arguing about the whole 'who's the most attractive to women' and we're getting nowhere. My position is that women are more attracted to bodies than guys think. I can't on Instagram without seeing my female friends openly drooling over some gym bro with 8% body fat. Meanwhile if you were to ask them, they'd say it's not about their lo...| Paging Dr. NerdLove
Estimated reading time: 16 minutes Dear Doctor NerdLove, Long time reader and bona-fide straight woman here. Something struck me in your latest column, 'What Makes A Man Attractive to Women?' The LW lists examples of 'unattractive' men that masc-attracted women 'claim' are hot to illustrate their question. This time, it was Pete Davidson (I only get the appeal in the academic sense there, so I sort of understand the LW's confusion) and 'that guy from The Bear.' And it honestly took me a sec...| Paging Dr. NerdLove
He's told he's a catch and women like him, yet he's sitting by himself while other men are getting approached. What is he doing wrong?| Paging Dr. NerdLove
He's made a lot of improvements to his life but he's still getting rejected. How can he stop letting the frustration get to him?| Paging Dr. NerdLove
He's pretty happy with the progress he's made. But is it enough? What should he do about the nagging voice that says he needs to be the 'ideal' man to date?| Paging Dr. NerdLove