Her best friend's behavior has left her wondering if he ever liked her at all. Should she bring it up to him? Or should she just leave their friendship?| Paging Dr. NerdLove
Years of romantic failure have made him want to give up. How is someone supposed to feel desirable when all evidence says they aren't?| Paging Dr. NerdLove
Doctor's Note: this column was originally published on 9/18/17 It's not a stretch to say that dating is something of a contact sport. Signing up for it means that you're accepting that you might get hurt. Opening yourself up to people means being willing to risk a broken heart. No matter how carefully you plan or how much you try to protect yourself, eventually you're going to have to learn to deal with pain and rejection. Sometimes you see it bearing down on you like a freight train. Other t...| Paging Dr. NerdLove
Women often say that they want a nice guy, so why do so many of them think that nice guys are THE WORST? The trouble is that Nice Guy's behavior works against them; what they see as positive and respectful is actually pushing people away. Here's why being a Nice Guy drives women away... and why it can be so hard to STOP being a Nice Guy. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: What 'Nice Guy' behavior says about them Why 'treating her like a queen' is actually unattractive How Nice Guys ruin their relationships Th...| Paging Dr. NerdLove
He wants to develop an abundance mentality for his love life, but how can you do that when you never find anyone who wants to date you?| Paging Dr. NerdLove
I spend a lot of time working with men who want to get better at dating women. This ranges from guys who're trying to recover from a bad break-up, guys who spend so much time in the Friend Zone that they could run for political office there and even men who've never so much as held hands with someone, never mind asked a woman out on a date. In all that time I've noticed something important: The men who struggle the most with dating always — always — ask the wrong question. Every single t...| Paging Dr. NerdLove