One of the things I like to do as a dating coach is to keep up with the latest research on relationships and dating. So naturally, I like to read the latest studies coming from esteemed peer-reviewed journals such as, er. Esquire Magazine. Joking aside, the article Here's What Happened When Our Bosses Forced Us on a Blind Date for Science - which wins an award for a headline that doubles as both clickbait and the title of a Chuck Tingle short-story - was an interesting experiment in social d...| Paging Dr. NerdLove
Considering that we live in a post Sex And The City world, where vibrator sales are the new Tupperware parties and women are more empowered than ever to pursue their own sexual pleasure, it's tempting to think that men and women have finally leveled the playing field when it comes to casual sex. Women are increasingly feeling just as free to go out and find themselves a no-strings attached hook-up (which isn't as easy as many men like to say it is...) and wondering when leaving her underwear ...| Paging Dr. NerdLove
One thing I've learned over the years - both through my own experiences and from coaching others - is that men are all quivering bundles of anxieties and insecurities. We're not allowed to actually, y'know, voice most of these concerns - goes against Man Code, after all - but we sure as hell feel them. And it's that inability to actually voice our fears or anxieties that lets other people prey on them with snake-oil and horse shit. After all, why bother actually talking to somebody when y...| Paging Dr. NerdLove