Sexuality and relationship communities should embrace and foster a growth mindset rather than a fixed mindset.| bannon.substack.com
Pursuing exceptionalism at the cost of intimate connections with your partners is a bad idea.| bannon.substack.com
If we open our minds to new information and perspectives, the world can be a more welcoming, accepting, and joyful place.| bannon.substack.com
It is wise to prepare for the worst possible scenarios of social upheaval or natural disasters.| racebannon.substack.com
The sexually adventurous in the US are at risk because of the current political landscape.| bannon.substack.com
We’re taught to find purpose as if it’s stealthily residing somewhere for us to discover. It’s not. Don’t look for purpose. Instead, just live, be, and let any purpose that might emerge come to you.| racebannon.substack.com
Only by accepting that our world and society are in unprecedented disarray will we be able to individually and collectively best adapt and change.| racebannon.substack.com
When someone in the leather or kink scene sets themselves up as the ultimate authority, back away. They don’t have your best interests in mind.| bannon.substack.com
Thinking about whether I’m demisexual or not emphasizes the often-imprecise nature of the words we use.| bannon.substack.com
When others are trying to tell you how to be sexual or a kinkster, or how to configure or manage your relationships, resist adopting their advice without question.| bannon.substack.com