"Wealth is the number of things we can do without." Leo Tolstoy If you're one of the many people who are going overboard this holiday season, this article may not be for you. On the other hand, it may be perfect for you. So many of us express our love for others by buying things| The Phoenix Spirit
Are parents really in charge of their families today? Most parents would say, "Of course we are!" The more honest answer is, "Probably not." Popular media, peer culture and our very own beloved children themselves often run our families today. Don't get me wrong. We parents really do love our children. It's just that we| The Phoenix Spirit
Our children will not go to hell in a hand basket if we occasionally spoil them. All of us could use a little pampering and a day off work from time to time. Children who are given excess attention and protection are at least getting the message that they're loved. Unfortunately that's only half the| The Phoenix Spirit
Some children grow up playing a special role in their families. They're expected to emotionally manage an unstable and selfish parent for the sake of the family. In return for such caretaking, they're given praise by the needy parent but are secretly hated by their siblings for getting extra attention. Often such children are chosen| The Phoenix Spirit
Shame definitely has a place in our lives when we’ve done something wrong or hurt someone else. But it has no place in our lives when all we are doing is simply being a human being or being different in some way we cannot help.| The Phoenix Spirit
Oh you just wouldn't believe all the heartache Bob and I have had over our daughter's wedding! We were shocked when our darling Debbie, who is 30, told us that she didn't want to have her dad walk her down the aisle, she didn't want any flowers to recognize special relatives including my mother who| The Phoenix Spirit
Good character is doing the right thing when nobody else is looking. When I first met Jamil I didn’t know what to think. He is a charming, funny and intelligent man from Somalia who is active in his community here in the States. He helps many of his own country persons to make it in| The Phoenix Spirit