When I look at online spaces for people with dismissive-avoidant attachment, I was surprised to find how often the word ‘aromantic’ came up. I have never seen that word so much anywhere wasn’t a de…| The Notes Which Do Not Fit
Even during the first interview I did with my dad, it was clear friendship played an unusually small role in his life. Later interviews confirmed it. Never has he named a single close friend, and even when I press him … Continue reading →| The Notes Which Do Not Fit
The other day, I reread “How Can I Be Attracted to People Who Are Bad for Me, If I’m Not Even “Attracted” to Them?!” by VioletEmerald. I am in awe of what a deep and insightful thinker she is all … Continue reading →| The Notes Which Do Not Fit
Doing an anthro paper on asexuality. So depressing. I want to know from aces, why oh why do you even BOTHER talking to Lori Fucking-us-up Brotto. Why do you even let Anthony Bogaert into your spaces when they will not and do not honor asexuality in its full definition and seem to have this deliberate stubbornness not to get it right. I mean, seriously, fuck them. They spent sometimes over 7 fucking long years getting it wrong, then retconning, and then topping it off with still getting it sup...| Eclectic Creative