In my early years as a coach and leader, I thought my job was to fix things to make the world a better place. I wanted to ease the burden for others, offer| Center for The Empowerment Dynamic
When Over-Helping Hurts Everyone Of all the three reactive patterns in the Dreaded Drama Triangle (DDT), it is the hyper helper that most aligns with the Rescuer role. Society lifts the helper as a model citizen: generous, selfless, tireless and always willing to help. But what usually lies behind the actions of a […]| Center for The Empowerment Dynamic
How Baby Steps are the Secret to Creating Anything In my last blog I wrote about how to leverage the energy in the gap between what you want and what you actually have. I challenged readers to view this energy as generative rather than as anxiety. When embracing this energy as generative, the next step […]| Center for The Empowerment Dynamic
Most of us know when we’re caught in a reactive loop, but we don’t always realize which role we’re playing in the Dreaded Drama Triangle (DDT) roles of| Center for The Empowerment Dynamic