Making excuses is a natural defense mechanism. But what if the habit starts to negatively affect your marriage?| Prepare/Enrich
Do you feel bad if somebody gives you less-than-positive feedback? Do you automatically deny, resist, deflect, or counter with arguments? If so, this is blocking growth in your relationships. Don’t worry, defensiveness comes from a place of survival. You’re probably only trying to protect yourself from a perceived attack on your self and your “reputation.” What […]| Monika Hoyt–The Couple's Cure