A man’s 80 year-old father is getting scammed and extorted by a findom. Should he go to the police? Change his account numbers? See a marriage counselor? A gay man in his 20s looks very young. He worries that the men who are attracted to him may be skeezy because he looks more like a … Read More » The post Dad’s Being SCAMMED by a Findom! appeared first on Dan Savage.| Dan Savage
A woman’s old friend and sometime lover asked her for a beaver shot to ease his stress on an upcoming couples trip. She obliged. Did he thank her? No he did not. She’s miffed, and wonders if she’s being too sensitive. We love questions like this: What do gay men actually do with vibrators? Our … Read More » The post All Hail E. Jean Carroll! appeared first on Dan Savage.| Dan Savage
A cute li’l gal worries she just isn’t a very convincing dom. How can she use psychology to establish her sexy top role? A newly out pan man is ready to dive into gay culture. But he isn’t quite ready to shave his pubes! Does he have to? On the Magnum, Dan chats with novelist … Read More » The post Do I HAVE to Shave My Pubes? appeared first on Dan Savage.| Dan Savage
“Not generous.” That is what a gay man puts on his app profile to signify that he is not interested in sex workers. Is this offensive? Hear the heart-warming tale of how a woman spiced up her sex life by creating an Onlyfans account for only one fan- her husband. A gay man loves going … Read More » The post Third Vasectomy’s a Charm? appeared first on Dan Savage.| Dan Savage
A woman is grappling with the dubious ethics of financial domination. Her friend asked her to do it, and she made a quick, easy $1k. But she knows that it is addictive and can ruin men’s lives. Should she continue? A gay man is being bothered to distraction by his straight pal who teases and […]| Dan Savage
A man briefly dated a guy who only bottoms, and collects a variety of giant dildos. The caller worries that his natural size would never satisfy a man like this, and wonders if this is just the standard psychology of power bottoms. A straight woman tends to be attracted to gay and bisexual men, though […]| Dan Savage
Dan Savage and Amanda Knox dive into kink, resilience, and ethical non-monogamy in this revealing interview. Get tips on STI disclosures, poly boundaries, and more.| Dan Savage