A post about looking at sexual orientation as shorthand for potential (in)compatibility, written for the August 2023 Carnival of Aces.| The Ace Theist
Note: if you are reading this after June 8th, 2023 please see a new comment by Kate Wood below. Update March 21st, 2024: the AACAU has now updated the report and posted an apology. Would you be okay with allowing everything you and your community have ever done to be forgotten, like it never even happened? I wouldn’t. […]| The Ace Theist
In all of the talk on QPRs over the years, I’ve run across some occasional disagreement about whether or not “queerplatonic” as a term has room for ambiguity — with both implicit and explicit attempts to define it as a narrow and rigid concept, while treating those definitions as the way it’s always been. Simply […]| The Ace Theist
An infographic that presents a short overview of early anti-ace blogging, 2010-2015.| The Ace Theist
About nine years ago, I wrote and published a blogpost with title "Why I Wear an Ace Ring." At the time, I don't think I could have ever anticipated the reception that post got and is still getting almost a decade later.| The Ace Theist
Thank you to everyone who participated in or helped to spread the Gray-Ace & Gray-Aro Survey. This survey was released on July 28, 2022 and ran through September 15th, with the link shared on WordPress, Pillowfort, Tumblr, Twitter, AVEN, Arocalypse, Dreamwidth, Reddit, and various Discord servers. The survey collected 1,404 responses in total. Crossposted to […]| The Ace Theist
In this post I’ve compiled a list of basic problems I consider important to flag and look out for, covering some old recurring mistakes as well as cases where there’s still time to nip …| The Ace Theist