I’ve failed. Your main identity isn’t mainly a function of your activity. Your ultimate identity is that you are ultimately loved unconditionally. I got a text last week from my husband where he tenderly and gently shared how I had failed him during a conversation, and he wasn’t wrong. And my stomach dropped and my heart cracked and I immediately texted him back that he was very right, and I was very, very sorry. I’ve botched all kinds of things and I’ve hurt people over the y...