Midlife Doesn’t Always Look Like We Imagined At some point after 40, a quiet realization sets in: You’re probably not going to become the man you once pictured in your 20s or early 30s. For years, that realization flickered in the background of my thoughts. It didn’t come as a breakdown or dramatic life pivot, […] The post How Men Over 40 Can Let Go of What Wasn’t And Embrace What Is appeared first on VAGA magazine.