After all the cooking for our wedding lunch, after all the running around gathering documents, Fra and I finally tied the knot! In Italian, you'd say abbiamo fatto il grande passo. (We took the big step.)We decided to save the big celebration with all our friends and family for next year, so this time, we had a modest lunch with Fra's immediate family.Getting Married in Italy: Church or Comune? In a country that is 79% Catholic, a lot of people opt to get married in church. But since I'm not rel