For many months, I let my books pile up in what we call our reading room and I ignored all the other things scattered about. The room had become a dumping ground. In addition to being lazy, in addition to having more important things to do, I hesitated because cleaning up and rearranging is something my mom would tell me to do. A grown man does not have to listen to his mom. He is free to live in chaos! Perhaps I was hoping my wife would do the work. No? No. The work was mine to do. Now, afte...