Dear Alex, I am married. First time monogamous. I love him, I love the sex, I love the life. He is my intimacy, I am his. But I am also one of those slutty butterflies. My mother warned him, literally told him something like the “butterfly/net” analogy you wrote about in a recent post in Out. And yet, he still chose me. But the truth is, I love to flirt, I love cruising, I love men of all kinds, and yes, I love getting my dick sucked on my way to work. I even fell in love with a hookup bo...