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On magic boxes, mankeeping, and expecting more| www.secondperson.dating
If you want to live in his head, you have to pay rent| www.secondperson.dating
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Explaining the negativity bias in dating discourse takes us deep into enemy territory.| www.secondperson.dating
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Becoming matters more than wanting.| www.secondperson.dating
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The past and future of mating reflected in the black pill.| Second Person
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The temptation of being tempting, the mismeasure of love, and the risky work of intimacy.| Second Person
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Finding manhood in a manless place| www.secondperson.dating
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