Two of our favourite folks have recently got together to produce an online course on Mapping Your Relationship Ecosystem. Sophia Graham from Love Uncommon – who has so many great resources on self-consent among other things – and our beloved co-author Alex Iantaffi have put together an amazing programme of handouts, videos, recorded exercises and […]| Rewriting The Rules
Now that my new book with Alex Iantaffi, How to Understand Your Relationships, is out in the world (the last book in our How to Understand Your… series), I’m stocked that my interview about trauma and relationships is being included in the Reset Your Nervous System Super Conference. The interview covers: How developmental and cultural trauma impact our […]| Rewriting The Rules
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This post describes the thinking and feeling behind our new zine Plural Tarot (and Plural Tarot Companion). It takes the form of an interview between the self who created it – Fox – and another self – Ara. If you haven’t read one of our plural blog-posts before and aren’t sure who these people are, […]| Rewriting The Rules
The JKP Writing Prize for 2025 has just been announced with a theme of disability. JKP are the publishers of the books that we write together with Alex. They recently published Alex’s edited collection – Trans and Disabled – which including a chapter by us on plurality. The JKP Writing Prize is a competition for aspiring […]| Rewriting The Rules
A couple of weeks ago we recorded a video about plural/inner relationships with Sophia at Love Uncommon for a new online course that she and Alex Iantaffi are putting together on mapping your relationships. That course isn’t available yet, but in the meantime we thought to flag up another course that Sophia is starting […]| Rewriting The Rules
Now that our new book, How to Understand Your Relationships, is out in the world (the last book in our How to Understand Your… series), Alex Iantaffi and I are made up that two of our interviews about trauma and relationships (and one that I did without Alex) are being included in the Attachment, Trauma & […]| Rewriting The Rules
Thanks so much to the Wellcome Collection for including Zine Maker in their new exhibition Zines Forever! DIY Publications and Disability Justice. The exhibition runs from 14th March to 14th September 2025 and looks at how zines have been used to share experiences of disability and disabled identity. The Zine Maker zine will be near […] The post Zines Forever! appeared first on Rewriting The Rules.| Rewriting The Rules
Queer Creative Health 2 is out now! This zine is a follow up to the first Queer Creative Health zine, also commissioned by Queercircle. The first zine explored the meanings of queerness, creativity, and health, and what might be gained by bringing these things together. It invited readers into various queer creative health practices at […] The post New zine! Queer Creative Health 2 appeared first on Rewriting The Rules.| Rewriting The Rules
Here’s a video in conversation with Alex Iantaffi discussing our new book How To Understand Your Relationships. You can also listen to the conversation on Alex’s podcast, Gender Stories.| Rewriting The Rules
Our latest book with Alex Iantaffi is out now, with Jessica Kingsley Publishers. How to Understand Your Relationships is the last in our How to Understand Your… trilogy, taking the same format as How to Understand Your Gender and How to Understand Your Sexuality, again with fabulous illustrations by Jules Scheele, and this time with […]| Rewriting The Rules
The Best of the Trauma Super Conference In advance of our new book, How to Understand Your Relationships (last book in our How to Understand Your… series), Alex Iantaffi and I are made up that our interview about trauma patterns in relationships with Jaï Bristow is being included in the best of the Trauma Super […]| Rewriting The Rules
In advance of our new book, How to Understand Your Relationships (last book in our How to Understand Your… series), Alex Iantaffi and I recently spoke about trauma patterns in relationships with Jaï Bristow for the Trauma Super Conference. In our conversation, we cover: Why traumatic dynamics arise in relationships, The role of both cultural […]| Rewriting The Rules
This post describes the thinking and feeling behind our new zine Triangles (and Circles) of Selves. It takes the form of an interview between the self who created it – Fox – and another self – James. If you haven’t read one of our plural blog-posts before and aren’t sure who these people are, feel […]| Rewriting The Rules
