I really wish I didn't have to choose between parenthood on the one hand and both financial security and personal fulfilment on the other.| nuclearmeltdown.substack.com
Copy the people whose lives have produced a supportive community| Nuclear Meltdown
Waiting to have kids makes sense if you assume no one has a village| nuclearmeltdown.substack.com
Wisdom from Bob Odenkirk| nuclearmeltdown.substack.com
I wanted to increase the odds that my kids and (future) grandkids will have a village| nuclearmeltdown.substack.com
They are the pro-village choice| nuclearmeltdown.substack.com
Running around, laughing and yelling are suitable activities for kids to do in public| nuclearmeltdown.substack.com
It's easier to build a village when different types of people can live near each other| nuclearmeltdown.substack.com
When it comes to village building, I haven't found a replacement| nuclearmeltdown.substack.com
Lessons from the Mongol Empire| nuclearmeltdown.substack.com
There are no one-night stands for friendship| nuclearmeltdown.substack.com
I interviewed two friends who live next door to their parents and siblings| nuclearmeltdown.substack.com
A legacy is a gift and a guide for future generations| nuclearmeltdown.substack.com
Family is about building something that'll pay off over the long term, not about dopamine hits| nuclearmeltdown.substack.com
We all get old, but we have to choose to be elders| nuclearmeltdown.substack.com
Painting time-tested ideas as "trad" makes them easy to knock down| nuclearmeltdown.substack.com
The cost of convenience appears to be social connection| nuclearmeltdown.substack.com
Or, how I've tried to adopt a multigenerational mindset, part 2| nuclearmeltdown.substack.com
There's overwhelming pressure to deprioritize relationships. But that can change| Nuclear Meltdown
Despite its name, 'Friends' actually demonstrates the power of family relationships| Nuclear Meltdown
Ennoble kinkeeping and stay-at-home moms, not workaholism| Nuclear Meltdown
Would you attend a U.S. Surgeon General potluck?| Nuclear Meltdown
It's easy to say you'd do anything for your kids. It's much harder to give up things you believe.| nuclearmeltdown.substack.com
Alexis de Tocqueville had thoughts on how to build an "esprit de famille"| nuclearmeltdown.substack.com
A passive worldview erodes mental health. It's both a symptom and cause of depression| nuclearmeltdown.substack.com
"Somebody I Used to Know" argues in favor of putting family on the back burner| nuclearmeltdown.substack.com