The only sure path to improving your dating life is to improve yourself. But what happens when nobody else seems to notice these changes? Going from the sad sack loser - an 'average frustrated chump' in PUA parlance - to being someone who was confident and at ease with himself and who actually was skilled at meeting women, getting dates, getting laid - took years of work. I had to fight a lifetime of ingrained bad habits, self-limiting beliefs and the adoption of somebody else's identity of ...| Paging Dr. NerdLove
Straight talk time: confidence is sexy. Someone who lacks confidence - even if he looks like a GQ cover model - is going to be considerably less attractive than someone who may not have perfect facial features but does have abundant self-esteem. This isn't just 'rah rah self-esteem' feel-good bullshit; confidence actually alters how people see you. In a study published by the International Journal of Cosmetic Science researchers found that raising men's confidence - in this case, via the...| Paging Dr. NerdLove