Hi Doc, I've been reading your column for many years and found that thinking of what advice would I give first and then comparing it with your answer is a great way to gradually calibrate my views about relationships. So I figured I would ask for your holy Chair Leg now since I have no idea what advice to give myself (or rather - I do, but all of it sounds dumb to me and I suspect I am deceiving myself in some ways). For the context, I am a 27y old hetero guy and I've had some struggles with| Paging Dr. NerdLove
He has severe ADHD and has struggled to learn to live with it. His roommate thinks he's a lazy slob. How can he get her to understand his condition?| Paging Dr. NerdLove
He's pretty happy with the progress he's made. But is it enough? What should he do about the nagging voice that says he needs to be the 'ideal' man to date?| Paging Dr. NerdLove