Hi Doc, I've been reading your column for many years and found that thinking of what advice would I give first and then comparing it with your answer is a great way to gradually calibrate my views about relationships. So I figured I would ask for your holy Chair Leg now since I have no idea what advice to give myself (or rather - I do, but all of it sounds dumb to me and I suspect I am deceiving myself in some ways). For the context, I am a 27y old hetero guy and I've had some struggles with
