He hates himself for being an older virgin almost as much as he hates other virgins. How can he let go of the hate and negativity and be a better person?| Paging Dr. NerdLove
He's 39, on the spectrum, lives with his parents and still a virgin. How can he get over this late start and finally start dating?| Paging Dr. NerdLove
He wants to leave the incel community, but it's hard to let go. Don't they have a point? How can he learn to let those toxic beliefs go for good?| Paging Dr. NerdLove
He feels like being an older virgin is the worst thing he can be. Is he right? Or is there a bigger problem that he needs to address?| Paging Dr. NerdLove
Hey doc, I'm 23 years old, a guy, and I still haven't lost my virginity yet, and while I've seen some of your stuff on that matter, I still feel like time is 'running out' for me, and I'm worried about how others see me, and moreover how I see myself for it. In summary, I haven't lost my virginity partially because I'm not a big partier and haven't sought out hooking up in the past, and also because I turned down two other opportunities. First, an acquaintance offered to be FWB when I was 20....| Paging Dr. NerdLove
Estimated reading time: 14 minutes Ello Doc I've seem to have a very toxic relationship with my own virginity especially my mid 20s. I hate it, I despise it and I distain and frankly honestly want to get rid of this burden that's crushing me like a ton of bricks. Let's be honest it's 2024 and well it's trendy, sex positive (thank you Bumble) and feminist shame, degrade and mock men for being virgins (and their penis size) and kinda understandably so because frankly lotta of male virgins (or i...| Paging Dr. NerdLove