Hey doc, I'm 23 years old, a guy, and I still haven't lost my virginity yet, and while I've seen some of your stuff on that matter, I still feel like time is 'running out' for me, and I'm worried about how others see me, and moreover how I see myself for it. In summary, I haven't lost my virginity partially because I'm not a big partier and haven't sought out hooking up in the past, and also because I turned down two other opportunities. First, an acquaintance offered to be FWB when I was 20....