I've written a lot about the pick-up scene - usually about the negative side of things - but there can be good sides to. One of the things that was the most helpful back when I was in the pick-up scene wasn't what I was learning, but being part of a lair ((Yes, I know. But it's what they were called.)) Now granted lairs had problems in and of themselves, but part of what made it helpful was that it was a place for guys to come together and generally be supportive of one another. There was an...| Paging Dr. NerdLove
He's struggled with chronic depression his whole life. Is it possible to date when he's still wrestling with a mental illness?| Paging Dr. NerdLove
Dear Dr. NerdLove: I am contemplating a big move and looking for a distanced opinion. A few years ago, I met Awesome Guy at a work event. We hit it off, had a lot in common, and amazing chemistry. We both travel a lot for work and actually live in separate countries. Neither of us was looking for 'the one' at the time, so we agreed to see each other casually when we found each other in the same city, which was about once a month or so. This worked out well for almost a year, but as you can| Paging Dr. NerdLove
She's getting ready to move to another country to be with her boyfriend. Will the stress end their relationship before it can even start?| Paging Dr. NerdLove