The only sure path to improving your dating life is to improve yourself. But what happens when nobody else seems to notice these changes? Going from the sad sack loser - an 'average frustrated chump' in PUA parlance - to being someone who was confident and at ease with himself and who actually was skilled at meeting women, getting dates, getting laid - took years of work. I had to fight a lifetime of ingrained bad habits, self-limiting beliefs and the adoption of somebody else's identity of ...| Paging Dr. NerdLove
Getting better at dating is hard enough. It gets even harder when it feels like your own mind is fighting back against your attempts to improve yourself. When I was younger, I used to be a chronic insomniac. I'd be physically tired, but I could never actually get to sleep; my body would be exhausted but I could never get my brain to quiet down long enough for me to relax and pass out. Every night became an exercise in what I called 'riding the maelstrom' ((Because when you're a young nerd, e...| Paging Dr. NerdLove