On Monday, I talked a little about the toxic culture surrounding masculinity and how it hurts men. Today, I want to start the conversation to help dismantle it. And one of the best places to start is to talk about sex. Specifically: male virginity and the shame in not having sex. One of the things that I've seen come up over and over again in the aftermath of the Elliot Rodger shooting is the number of men - men of literally all ages - talking about the shame and pain of being a male virg...
