Hi Dr. NerdLove, I've known my partner for around 1.5 years. He's from a foreign country, but his parents are from here. He moved here half a year ago, the plan was to stay here for 1-2 years to learn the language and work. Entering the relationship was a difficult decision for him, because he never thought he would commit to someone outside of his own country. However, we decided to commit even though the future seems scary for both of us. He's been having a hard time adjusting (he barely sp...