I am glad that my past self came up with this monthly ritual because as creatures of comfort we are too ingrained in our daily mundane routines to do something out of the ordinary. we can be together in the same house for 24 hours and yet it doesn't mean we spend quality time with each other. she's usually tied up with her creative projects and i'm tied up with my moping. but once a month we set aside everything including our own personal quirks to focus our full attention on each other. i fe...