I get a lot of friends and family asking for help figuring out their retirement finances when they’re just a few years from retiring. These discussions follow a common pattern: people say they want to spend more in their 60s while they’re still able to enjoy new experiences, but they make plans that involve spending less in their 60s than they will have available in their 70s and beyond. They resist a simple idea even after I show them how much more they could be spending early on.