Definitely one of my favorite writers is the famed poet Rumi, and one of my favorite things that he has ever said is, “What you seek is seeking you.” To me, it complements another quote by the best-selling author Paulo Coelho extremely well: “And, when you want something, all the universe conspires in helping you to achieve it.” Okay, but what happens if what you are thinking that you might want has something to do with a close guy friend of yours? Even deeper, what if you’re not ex...