Jon, First and foremost, it’s perfectly normal to want to beloved. It’s fundamental human nature to crave intimacy – please don’t thinkthat there is anything wrong with feeling that way. I think it’s important to think about what exactly it isthat you are looking for in these flings. Is it love? Is it closeness? Sex? A distraction?Often times, we look for what we desire in the wrong places. If you’re lookingfor love, you’re never going to find happiness in a string of one-night ...