When I was a kid, I liked to be a girly tomboy. I think this was the best you could describe my gender. I wasn’t afraid of bugs. I liked picking up worms, and I wanted to be outside digging in dirt, etc. I also liked sports well enough, though my dad, subconsciously sexist, spent more time with my brother playing sports and ignored me completely. I wanted to wear lace because I liked it, not because it was girly. My gender wasn’t exactly a question. It’s more like… people called me a ...