The only sure path to improving your dating life is to improve yourself. But what happens when nobody else seems to notice these changes? Going from the sad sack loser - an 'average frustrated chump' in PUA parlance - to being someone who was confident and at ease with himself and who actually was skilled at meeting women, getting dates, getting laid - took years of work. I had to fight a lifetime of ingrained bad habits, self-limiting beliefs and the adoption of somebody else's identity of ...| Paging Dr. NerdLove
Straight talk time: confidence is sexy. Someone who lacks confidence - even if he looks like a GQ cover model - is going to be considerably less attractive than someone who may not have perfect facial features but does have abundant self-esteem. This isn't just 'rah rah self-esteem' feel-good bullshit; confidence actually alters how people see you. In a study published by the International Journal of Cosmetic Science researchers found that raising men's confidence - in this case, via the...| Paging Dr. NerdLove
Welcome to 2014 folks. It's a new year and ripe for potential and improvement. If you're like most folks, you've made some New Year's resolutions. Perhaps getting better at dating is one of them... Usually around this time, I make my annual tirade about how New Year's resolutions are wastes of time but I want to do things differently. You see, one of the reasons why so many resolutions fail is that you're addressing surface issues rather than the core causes. For example, f you're trying...| Paging Dr. NerdLove
