Hi Dr. NerdLove, I turned my life around, but still can't find a date. I suppose I'm your typical young adult geek. I live in a small apartment with collectible toys on shelves. I play video games, gossip on pop culture websites and don't sleep well unless I've watched an episode of Star Trek to make me comfortable in bed. I'm also short, pudgy and often feel quite unattractive. I've had a single long-term relationship a few years ago, but things have been quiet since. I felt my life was goin...