Estimated reading time: 15 minutes Dear Dr. NerdLove,I'm in my thirties now and haven't dated since my early twenties. Some of that has just been life circumstances, some of it has been excuses using those life circumstances, but I've finally 'got' to the place I want to be, and now I just have to face the naked truth: I'm fucking terrified of relationships.It dates back to my main long-term relationship from my twenties. In retrospect, it basically followed a pattern of me trying to get her ...
